The US border wont be looking at etransfers to illegal moms, they have access to your cc statement, which they are checking for purchases of legal weed. No need to worry, and if a mom requires ID, just black out any info they dont need, in general anything other than name and age is not necessary.
As for the products, dear god stop inhaling FLyte. They are the most garbage carts on the market. HSP's honey oil is getting some attention, and for good reason, it's great. Easiest and cheapest way though is to get yourself some shatter and a bottle of PG and make your own liquid.